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Why do so many people not get what they want out of life?

Why do so many people find themselves falling into jobs they don’t really want? Or living in places that don’t make them happy? Or with lifestyles that they find stressful?

How does someone go from dreaming of being a rock star, to being locked in an office to enter data onto a spreadsheet all day?

Well, there are many factors. But it usually starts by not clearly defining your goals or what you want. Because until you know exactly what it is you actually want, how can you possibly expect to get it?

That means it is not good enough to decide you want to be ‘rich’, you need to know what you want to do to become rich. What kind of work you enjoy, how many hours you’re willing to work etc.

Likewise, if you hope to become a rock star, then you might want to think about how you actually intend to make that happen. What does being a ‘rock star’ entail for you and how are you going to make it happen? What would you settle for?

And when you make all these decisions, you need to ensure that this is truly what you’re passionate about – that your intended goal is something that you enjoy thinking about, enjoy working on and can’t wait to make a reality.

Use the Law of Attraction to Get What You Want!

In order to make the Law of Attraction work easily for you it is very important that you develop a deeper understanding about it. There are a number of different layers to the Law of Attraction and you need to understand and master these layers.

After you fully understand how the Law of Attraction works you will find that everything will become a lot easier for you. By the end of this post you will have a better understanding of the many levels and you can make the Law of Attraction work easily for you.

Here is something that may shock you – a person that passionately believes that the Law of Attraction works and a person that thinks that it does not work at all are both right!

This is because whatever a person chooses to believe becomes their reality. If they think that the Law of attraction is rubbish and will never work for them then they are right. It will never work for them. The person that has unwavering belief about the Law of Attraction will use it to get the results that they want.

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Know the Secrets of the Law of Attraction

For now, I am asking you to believe that there are Law of Attraction secrets that you need to know about that will provide extraordinary results for you. When you use these secrets the application of the Law of Attraction will seem like magic. It isn’t really magic of course but it will certainly feel like that.

Open your Mind to Greater Things

There are Law of Attraction secrets that will increase your manifestation power significantly. In order to benefit from this secret you need to really open up your mind and accept that there are greater possibilities available.

If you are offered opportunities in your life what do you do? Most people tend to refuse these opportunities but this is a big mistake. By saying “yes” more often to opportunities you will open up your world and great things can grow from small opportunities.

You need to learn to take a deeper look at things. If you are satisfied with something in your life are you missing out on something better? If you dig deeper you will probably find that there is.

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Immerse Yourself to Become a Master

If you want to become a master of anything then you need to be prepared to fully immerse yourself. This certainly includes the Law of Attraction. Be prepared to study the Law of Attraction deeply. Understand as many things about it as you can and be committed to learning more every day.

Be prepared to spend a few weeks really getting to know how the Law of Attraction works. This will pay you back in the long term for sure. There are many resources available these days for you to learn everything about the Law of Attraction, here is a list of the Top 10 Law of Attraction Books to help you manifest your desires.

Peel Back the Layers

There are layers involved in everything. Just talk with an expert in the Law of Attraction and they will quickly tell you that there are many layers to it. Within all of the different categories expect there to be a number of layers and make a commitment to master all of these.

The detail is very important. Don’t skip over something if you don’t understand it the first time around. Go over this again and again until you get it. Be prepared to go all out with this and identify and learn the different layers of the Law of Attraction so that you can use it effectively to manifest whatever you want.

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What is Preventing You from Attracting What You Want?

If you do not have full awareness, then using the Law of Attraction to get what you want in life will be a lot harder than it needs to be. You need to know about the things that are possibly preventing you from manifesting what you want.

You are not in Alignment with What you Wish For

This is an interesting one that affects a lot of people. They say that they want to manifest something, but they are not truly in alignment with the thing that they desire. For the Law of Attraction to really work well for you being in alignment with what you want is a must.

But this is not always the easiest thing to do. Let’s say that you are suffering financially, and you have a desire to manifest $30,000 quickly. The problem is that your environment screams poverty and you do not really feel that you are deserving of this amount of money.

You need to work on yourself so that you do feel deserving of $30,000 and a lot more. This is essential because your alignment is out of step and unless you fix this the Universe is not going to manifest the money for you.

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You Lack Focus

Every time that you focus on what you desire you will send high levels of energy and strong positive vibrations to the Universe. You cannot approach this in a halfhearted way. It is essential that your focus is strong and regular.

Write down what it is that you desire and write a statement to the Universe. Reflect on this several times a day and say your statement out loud. It is not enough to think about your desire now and again. It must be a focus for you to practice more than once a day.

How Strong Are Your Feelings?

You need as much power as possible in the vibrations that you emit to the Universe. This power comes from how strongly you feel about what you want to manifest. If your feelings are weak in this area, then you will have a hard time convincing the Universe that you really want what you desire.

Use visualization to see yourself already having the desire in your life. Check out this post on the benefits of creative visualization. Make the feelings strong around this. Feel the joy and excitement of having this thing in your life. Increase the power of your vibrations by doing this regularly.

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Be More Aware

The Law of Attraction is not the only life law that you need to be aware of. There are 12 Laws of the Universe and they all have a part to play in you manifesting your desires. Law of Inspired Action tells us we must actively pursue our goals, simply visualizing the goal is not enough. So, make it your business to find out about these other laws and make sure that you are in alignment with all of them.

Make the Law of attraction work for you

Once you fully understand how the Law of Attraction works, everything in your life vibrates! Not physically, that would drive you bonkers…Humans communicate with the Universe through their thoughts and if they think in a negative way then they will attract negative things in their life.

When you send the right signals to the Universe you will be able to manifest your desires easily. It all starts with the right thoughts but this needs to be followed up with the right action. Never believe that just thinking about your desires will make them happen for you. You need to take action and make a plan.

Once you have your plan remember that it is not cast in stone. You can change and adapt it as you progress. Ask yourself what you can do today to make progress towards your goal. Write these down and take action. Not just any kind of action, immediate, explosive action that will propel you into the life of your dreams.

Lindsey Bobbitt Happiness Through Self-Care

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